We are designed as relational beings. We are meant to connect intimately with another human being in an authentic way. This means when our emotional and relational needs are met. Relationships are the fuel we need as men and women.
We also need the right relationship skills. We are not born with the skills we need to connect with someone else. We are meant to learn and experience those skills in our family of origin with our caretakers when we were growing up. Many times this does not happen or it may have been a confusing inconsistent painful experience. Many people find out that they do not have the right relationship skills to do married.
They run into problems with communicating or connecting. I usually tell people your problems in marriage began way before you got married.
Dr.Ajit provides specific skills to help them grow in their relationships with one another. We offer counseling services for patients struggling with substance abuse issues and worked with families to help support and treat individual behaviors.
Advocated for clients to assist with additional supplementary services beyond the counselor’s office, such as medication, social services, and housing help. Opened a free community center counseling office for local citizens without health insurance to address crisis situations.
A marriage counsellor can see both individuals and married couples for the purpose of addressing issues related to their marriage. The marital counsellor’s job is to figure out what’s really going on behind the complaints, to resolve disagreements, and to encourage the couple to agree on rules and boundaries so that the marriage can get back on track. During a marriage counselling session the counsellor can identify concerns, such as drug misuse, childhood events, or depression, that he believes are contributing to the couple’s problems. Marriage conflict is normal and marriage counsellors are trained to help the couple navigate various different areas of concern like communication problems, sexual intimacy issues, cheating and infidelity, value and lifestyle differences as well as personality differences.
Marriage counselling is an independent certification, however, most marriage counsellors are also qualified psychologists, who have taken up a niche in working with couples and families. Book an Appointment